Choiceless Awareness

If you become acquainted with death through love and meditation, by and by you will see that life and death are two aspects of the same coin.

Then you are not worried. Then you don't choose. Then you live a life of choiceless awareness. Then all is the same.

If you choose life you have chosen death. If you avoid death you will avoid life - so there is no point in choosing, and there is no point in avoiding.